The best way to heal yourself is to get busy and go to bed early and get up early. Growth is that you will eventually find that there are people in the world. When you can face them with an open mind and have the power to control your anger and stop trying to change anyone, that will be your new birth. The voice of the ear is too noisy, do not listen to the tube, move forward, do not argue with people who are not the same vision,probably we are young, with their own edges and corners collide with each other, those who do not get along with the relationship, we are painful collapse. As you grow older and experience more, you will realize that life is not all about the pain of relationships. To be kind, to work hard, to read, to exercise, to study, to make yourself better, is the most important thing in life.