Girls should be sober, healthy, sunny, positive, financially independent, spiritually independent, and know how to please themselves. You don’t have to obey anyone. You can become excellent according to your own ideas. You can live an ideal life through your own efforts and make yourself glitter down to earth. Take good care of your skin and wear a light makeup every day. We should have our own aesthetics and wear what we like. Eat whatever you want and treat you rself well. Save money to buy things you like and travel to cities you like. Focus on yourself is the most reliable thing. I don’t know who I will meet next, but I can be sure that no matter what kind of person the other person is, he also wants me to be excellent, calm and beautiful, so I don’t need to spend a lot of time imagining what the end should be like. I should use all the waiting to arm myself.When I meet you one day, I can say righteously that I know you are good, but I am not bad either.